One Deep Breath 11/12/07 Week 76: Belonging

Truly Belonging
Is a self-made decision
Without influence

Not what others think
But how you value yourself
In the group's context

Regardless of size
Even in small families
One can feel outcast

Fitting in or not
Seems so simple to many
Just sure of themselves

6 comments:

jem said...

Each of these has a very wise and philosophical tone to it. And they are all very valid and useful to remember. The first one is particularly vivid to me. It comforts me to think 'belonging' can be something I can achieve, not reliant on others. Thanks for sharing.

qualcosa di bello said...

you just know when you belong...or when you don't. very wise words.

Laure said...

You have the gift of exhortation. Thank you for these haiku!

Clare said...

Bravo Chris! I love how you explored self esteem and empowerment in these, and also the complexities of feeling left out -- whether it is done to us or our own confidence is wavering and we hold back. Really well done!
:)

spacedlaw said...

It is true that if you have no confidence or esteem for yourself you'll always feel foreign to your surroundings, even if they are familiar.

Mimey said...

But not so easy to value yourself, though taking control is surely worthwhile. Enjoyed these.